Breaking My Hymen

Posted on January 8, 2008 by lenina

When doing some work-related research, I came across a forum for virgins. No, seriously, I’m not kidding!

From a sample thread (Breaking my hymen):

 

Hey, I’m a virgin and I can’t get anything into my vagina and I think my hymen is causing it. It’s kind of inconvenient because I can’t use tampons or anything b/c I can’t get them in. My question is, how can I break my hymen, or could I ask a doc (like the gyno) to break it for me? Thanks

and then same user says later:

That would work, except that I plan on using tampons NOW and losing my virginity AFTER marriage. I think it just might be too thick for me to break or fit anything through just by my own trying..I’ve been trying for years now…Thanks for the suggestion, but being a Christian Southern Baptist girl, I’m waiting for my husband until I have intercourse.

and then a quote they used as signature

“Wait for the man who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the kind of man who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better woman. Wait for the man who will be your best friend, the one who will drop everything to be with you. Wait for the man who makes you smile like no other guy makes you smile. Wait for the man who respects and loves you for who you are, not who everyone else wants you to be. Wait for the man who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats and no makeup, but loves it when you get all dolled up for him. Wait for the man who praises God for you, and encourages you daily in your walk, and most importantly, wait for the man who is more in love with God than you.”

at that point I had to stop reading.

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4 Responses to “Breaking My Hymen”

  1. anaj, on January 9th, 2008 at 4:43 pm Said:

    sick. poor enslaved creature.

  2. automatthias, on January 10th, 2008 at 9:12 am Said:

    I kind of know, why he needs to love God more. Consider this story:

    A Muslim (… ;) married his eldest daughter, telling his wife Sakina that Allah had ordained him to do so.

    And, apparently, it worked, she bought into it:

    “He is a deeply religious man and will never lie in the name of Allah,” Sakina told a court in the northern district of Jalpaiguri.

  3. anaj, on January 10th, 2008 at 9:09 pm Said:

    wtf? wtf? wtf??????

  4. Robert Carnegie, on January 26th, 2008 at 3:47 am Said:

    You missed the guy who posted to say as a Christian he wasn’t going to marry any girl without a hymen. So how’s he gonna know, look? Of course it’s quite possible he’s kidding.

    There seems to be a lot of ignorance on the physiology of the topic, including mine. The indication that tragic harm to the sensitive nerves can occur if this thing is ruptured or disturbed by anything other than a husband strikes me as quaintly archaic - or, heck, propaganda that makes me blush. Apparently doctors cheerfully slice the thing fully open and sometimes they have to, and if it’s your body and that’s what you want then why not, apart from the fee. Doctors also have a procedure to sew it back in, or something like it, although it has no known function, and the cost brings tears to your eyes twice (three times? whatever.) And Fanny Hill didn’t need that, although I recall she did have cartoon alum, the lights out, and a sponge soaked with stage blood concealed in the bed-post.

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